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Jul 04
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Evolving the way dance is taught

By dance & Art, Exercise, fun for children, Mental health, Playing
by Jess Child
JC Dance

The importance of a positive safe and inclusive learning environment for children.

Dance classes, especially ballet classes, are notoriously known for their strict nature. Often putting the mental and physical wellbeing of students at risk. It is time to switch this narrative and normalise a gentler approach which supports students rather than tearing them down. This looks like an emphasis on wellbeing, inclusivity, positive reinforcement, listening to the body and the understanding of injury prevention.

Emphasis on wellbeing means treating dance students as human first, and dancers second. Mental health must be a priority in the dance space. All humans are different so why does this have to change in a dance class? Students will all have different needs and experience classes in different ways. Teachers who model empathy, respect and have open communication with their students, create a safe space where children feel valued, supported and free to explore movement without fear of judgment. This encourages individuality of each student, nurtures children’s confidence, and empowers them to express and be themselves. Dance should be a source of happiness and connection, not pressure.

Inclusivity in dance classes is essential for creating a space where every child can feel seen. Dance should reflect the diverse world we live in, welcoming all body types, abilities and ways of thinking. Recognising and supporting neurodivergent students, for example those with autism, ADHD or other cognitive differences, means adapting teaching styles, using clear communication, and stepping away from the rigidity of ballet training.

Using different learning styles and pathways allows children to be themselves and thrive. It is important to challenge the outdated stereotypes of how a dancer ‘should look’. Using an approach of body neutrality in dance classes, focusing on what our bodies can do, how they move and how that makes them feel. Taking the focus away from how our bodies look. In a society already rampant with diet culture, dancers are even more vulnerable, often in front of mirrors and looking towards a stereotypical ‘ballet body’ as a goal. If a child has a body and is doing ballet, they have a ballet body! It’s a teacher’s job to protect their students from these toxic ideals.

Teaching children to listen to their bodies in a dance setting, is crucial for safety and injury prevention. Often young dancers’ bodies are pushed beyond their limits creating lifelong problems. We have to respect our body’s limits and remember young bodies are growing and changing all the time, so these limits within each individual student will also change. Encouraging body awareness will help young dancers recognise pain and fatigue early. This will reduce the likelihood of injury and create lifelong healthy movement patterns. The teacher’s job is to teach students correct technique so as to not put any added strain onto their growing joints and muscles. It’s teaching children it’s OK to rest, its OK to listen to your body’s internal cues. Empowering students to respect and have autonomy over their own bodies.

At the heart of evolving dance education is the importance of a positive and supportive learning environment. For children, positive reinforcement and offering corrections and constructive criticism from a place of kindness, builds confidence, motivation and resilience. As a teacher it’s important to lead a class from this place. The way a teacher speaks to their students, directly reflects how the students speak to themselves – teaching from a place of highlighting progress rather than focusing solely on mistakes will help children feel safe and valued. They will be more open to exploring what their bodies can do and take risks without fear of failure and judgment, therefore able enjoy the process of improving technique, nurturing a lifelong love for dance.

Jess Child runs IC Dance – dancing together, growing together. Where every child is welcomed, valued and supported in their movement journey.

www.jcdanceclasses.com  07305 228770  info@jcdanceclasses.com @jess_jcdanceyoga

Jul 03
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schoolkid learning

Building independent learning in the early years

By Early Years, Education, Relationships, Wellbeing
by Michelle Thurley
Head of Early Years at Little Amesbury, Amesbury School, Hindhead

It is said that ‘play is the work of childhood’, and it is well known and understood that the first five years of a child’s life are absolutely crucial in setting them up for success in later learning and life. Before the age of five children are at their very peak of natural curiosity, enthusiasm and brain capacity for new learning. Good quality early years education is all about teaching children the tools to harness their desire for independent learning. Teaching children how to learn and how to interact, and equipping children with these skills will give them the confidence and ability to learn independently for the rest of their school careers. So how is it done well?

The importance of play and free flow
In the early years children learn through play. In many other European countries children do not even begin the formal business of educating in maths and English until age seven. Instead, in such countries the early years’ curriculum encompasses lots of learning through play. In reality the two approaches are quite aligned.

Play is profoundly important when it comes to children’s social, emotional and cognitive learning. It allows children to pretend, to take risks, to explore and follow their own desires and interests. They learn to negotiate and communicate with their peers. Play also provides opportunities for children to control their emotions and behaviour. At the same time, it teaches skills like creativity and problem-solving.

A nursery or classroom set up that allows children to learn through play and explore in this way is a key component in developing their independence. ‘Free flow’ between activities and the outdoor space is vital in providing the physical environment to stimulate children and give them the confidence to build their independent learning. This typically means a formal activity then three or four complimentary activities being set up and explained to the children for them to go and enjoy, with the child leading their own choice of activity. For instance, a maths based early years activity could look like this; the children are digging in the sand and having fun, yet each child has been tasked to find three objects hidden in the sand. The preschoolers are all finding three different types of leaves at forest school, vs just collecting leaves. The variety of provision being notably inside and outside the classroom.

Bringing learning to life
Appealing to the broadest range of learning experiences possible in rich, creative ways to pique learning interest is the best approach. A teacher will refer to the ‘seven areas of learning’, from academic learning in literacy and maths, real-world exploration, physical activities, communication and language, expressive art and design and personal social and emotional development. A quicker short form for parents to remember is to nurture the ‘PIES’, Physical, Intellectual, Emotional and Social aspects of the life of their child. A rotation of rich and exciting opportunities to learn through play to ensure all of these vital areas of early learning are captured is key to building the independent learner early on.

Varying how learning is delivered is key, a range of materials, song, music, games and objects – giving children access to real objects as well as toys. Using a rich range of resources, like iPads or interactive whiteboards where children can select a worksheet, all build a child’s skills and give them agency in their own learning. Also allowing an activity to run on if children are very engaged is to be encouraged – early years learning is the best time for flexibility in the timetable. Getting outside, access to mud and leaves and weather, and opportunities to dress up and pretend within the school day are key to capturing a child’s imagination. I greatly enjoy teaching phonics with at least two of the class dressed as princesses or a superhero.

Recently, this provision in professional educational settings has become increasingly specialist. It is now more common for early years settings to offer specialist music, dance, languages, forest school and even Makaton and specialist sports. This is clear evidence of the need to offer the most ‘high definition’ learning possible to build independent learning.

The best illustration I can offer of independent learning starting to really take shape is a recent anecdote. One of the children I teach has been learning about the UN rights and responsibilities of a child in ‘The Real World Exploration’ aspect of the EYFS curriculum. The child had clearly understood from this lesson that children in the nursery and wider school community have a voice, and they must command dignity, respect and be accepted for who they are. This child was asked to effectively play a game of tag in their PE lesson, they asked to “sit out” the lesson as they did not see themselves having a role as either being chased or chasing anyone in that lesson and please could the teacher “respect my decision!”

Little Amesbury is a centre of excellence, dedicated to providing our youngest children with outstanding early years education, in a vibrant and challenging learning environment. For further details please visit www.amesburyschool.co.uk/littleamesbury

 

Jul 03
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Arty owl

Children need more art

By dance & Art, Education, fun for children, Mental health, play, Playing, Wellbeing
by Sebastian Dewing
Founder Artroom Brighton

Nurturing creativity beyond the classroom

Back at primary school, in the 1980s, I had a weekly art lesson in an art room, a pottery class in a pottery studio and a needlework lesson in a fabrics room. Whereas I appreciate, this was not necessarily on offer in every school, it certainly wasn’t radical.

Fast forward 40 years and the demotion of art from a core subject to a smattering of token options that children dip in and out of, is astounding. If my daughter is lucky enough to get an art lesson, it is usually in conjuction with a topic lesson – like lets draw ‘a Viking long boat’ or design a ‘save the rain forests’ poster. There is still value in this but it is rarely art for art’s sake. Our children are being disadvantaged by the requirements of national educational targets, which hugely favour ‘core’ subjects, meaning art is now undervalued in primary schools. It is the participation in art, rather than the ability and skill level of the child, that is fundamentally important here.

In a world of innovation, it couldn’t be a more crucial time to use art to empower our young people, as employers place a huge emphasis on creative thinking, in addition to personal skills such as confidence, effective decision-making and originality. Such skills are bolstered by studying the arts and being able to think outside of the box, innovate and be creative is something that seems lacking in many young people entering the workforce.

Sir Ken Robinson in his TED Talk, Do Schools Kill Creativity, said that: “Creativity is now as important in education as literacy – we don’t grow into creativity; we grow out of it. Or rather, we get educated out of it… Our education system has mined our minds in the way that we strip-mine the earth: for a particular commodity. And for the future, it won’t serve us. We have to rethink the fundamental principles on which we’re educating our children.”

The Digital, Culture, Media and Sport Committee (2019) said in their report Changing Lives: “We are deeply concerned by the evidence we received around the downgrading of arts subjects in schools, with all the consequent implications for children’s development, wellbeing, experiences, careers and, ultimately, life chances.”

While schools work really hard to deliver a broad curriculum, the time and resources available for creative subjects, such as art, are frequently limited or sidelined. Yet, for many children, art isn’t just a subject – it’s a language, an outlet and a way to connect with themselves and the world around them.

Art workshops can offer a space where that creative expression can truly flourish. Unlike the school environment, where outcomes and assessments can sometimes overshadow the process, workshops are structured around exploration and fun. They allow children to use new materials, think visually and build confidence in their own ideas – all in a relaxed and supportive setting.

During the long summer break, when routines shift and screen time can easily dominate, art workshops can provide children with meaningful, hands-on experiences. It’s not just about keeping them busy – it’s about giving them the tools and space to grow, create and have fun.

For parents looking to support their child’s artistic interests beyond the classroom, workshops can be an ideal stepping stone. They bridge the gap between what schools can offer and what children truly need to thrive as young creatives.

At Artroom Brighton, we truly and firmly believe that art has the power to transform and nurture the lives of young people – we’ve seen it happen many, many times.
In the current climate, it’s no wonder that more and more parents are choosing to send their children to our classes. Unlock YOUR child’s creative potential and book them in for a course at our studio. Visit www.arrtroombrighton

Jul 03
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ocean fishtank scene

Nurturing creativity

By Early Years, environment, Forest School, Green, Mental health
by Karen Borley
Senior Education Advisor, N Family Club

The magic of the atelier and self-expression in the Early Years

In their early years, children establish the foundations of how they view the world, relate to others and express themselves. One way to support this development is through the use of an atelier, which is a dedicated space for self-expression. Inspired by the Reggio Emilia approach to early childhood education, the atelier is a vibrant, ever-evolving environment where children of all ages can make sense of their world through art, play and sensory discovery.

The atelier concept comes from the Reggio Emilia approach, a renowned educational philosophy that places high value on children’s natural creativity. Reggio educators refer to the variety of ways that children interpret the world as the ‘hundred languages of children’ with the environment as the ‘third teacher’. Aligning with the Early Years Foundation Stage’s (EYFS) Expressive Arts and Design area, an atelier can facilitate the ‘hundred languages’ through 2D and 3D art, clay modelling, transient art, photography, music and sound, amongst other experiences. Children are free to experiment, to combine different mediums, to revisit ideas and to create without the pressure of a ‘right’ answer. Essentially, the journey matters as much as the end result.

When set up thoughtfully, as a dedicated room or as a part of the main family room, the atelier should invite exploration, curiosity and wonder in children of all ages. Experiences and materials can be adapted to suit a child’s stage of development – whether it’s a toddler squishing clay between their fingers or a preschooler constructing a 3D sculpture with the same materials, the atelier should welcome all forms of expression and creativity. For babies, an atelier experience might be about sensory exploration – watching light and shadow, listening to soft music or touching different textures. For toddlers, it could be about mark-making, experimenting with colour, or stacking and building. Older children may work on more complex projects involving design, sculpture and collaboration. Every child has the opportunity to develop confidence in their ideas, to try new techniques, and to build something uniquely theirs.

In the atelier, children can be introduced to a diverse range of artists whose work sparks curiosity and wonder. Artists such as Joan Miró, Jackson Pollock, Henry Moore and Yayoi Kusama can be explored. For example, a child might respond to Kusama’s dots with their own vibrant pattern work. These experiences help children see themselves as artists, too. They learn that art is not about perfection but about expression – finding their voice, rhythm and mark in the world.

The atelier is also a space for project work – an opportunity for deeper, shared discovery. Children can return to their creations over days or even weeks, adding layers of thought, materials and meaning. This ongoing process demonstrates to children that their ideas matter and deserve both time and attention. Educators should play a key role here, introducing new materials and techniques, asking thoughtful questions and helping children to connect their experiences to broader ideas. Older children can be provided with the opportunity to collaborate with one another by discussing plans and building together, and these early experiences of teamwork and communication lay strong foundations for emotional and social development.

An important aspect of the atelier approach is documentation. Children’s creations should not just be displayed, but also celebrated. Photos, notes and collections of work allow children to revisit past experiences, reflect on their process and share their stories with peers and their families, supporting a sense of ownership and pride. By giving children the freedom and tools to express themselves, we help nurture confident thinkers, communicators and lifelong learners. In the safe, inspiring space of the atelier, each child is invited to tell their story in their own unique way. For families, knowing that such a space exists in their child’s nursery can offer reassurance that their child is being seen, heard and valued every day.

Founded in 2017, N Family Club set out to rethink Early Years education – developing a progressive curriculum, building a sector-leading team culture, and a world class service that adds real value for families. A proud B Corp, N Family Club were rated the highest quality nursery group in the UK by Nursery World in 2022 & 2023 and were accredited as a Great Place to Work in 2024. www.nfamilyclub.com

Jul 01
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school line

A guide to transitioning from prep school to senior school

By Education, Relationships, Wellbeing
by Jessica.Musgrove
Burgess Hill Girls

The transition from prep to senior school represents one of the most significant educational milestones in a young person’s life. This period of change brings exciting opportunities alongside inevitable challenges.

A good senior school will aim to make this transition as seamless as possible, offering a supportive environment where students can flourish academically and personally. Whether your son or daughter is feeling nervous or eager about this next step, thoughtful preparation makes all the difference in ensuring a smooth and successful transition.

Understanding the transition
The shift to senior school involves much more than simply changing buildings or uniforms. Academically, pupils experience more structure with deeper subject-specific studies and heightened expectations for independent learning. While primary school may have emphasised broad knowledge acquisition, the senior school curriculum develops more sophisticated critical thinking and analytical skills.

Equally important is recognising the social and emotional journey ahead. Schools understand the importance of creating a nurturing community where new pupils integrate quickly and confidently. Experienced pastoral teams understand that navigating this social recalibration can be just as challenging as adapting to increased academic demands.

Developing essential study skills
The jump to senior school often reveals gaps in study skills that may not have been apparent previously. It’s important to support students to integrate effective time management, note-taking and revision techniques into their learning from day one. Most schools offer organisational tools like planners and digital resources to help pupils establish productive habits from the outset.

Head of Academic Progress at Burgess Hill Girls, Rohaise Flint, comments”The students who thrive most quickly are those who develop systematic approaches to their studies early on. Purpose-designed study spaces and consistent homework routines create an environment where students can reach their full potential.”

Goal setting for success
Rohaise Flint recommends that pupils establish both short-term and long-term goals. This practise not only boosts motivation but also helps pupils maintain perspective when challenges arise. Whether aiming for certain grades or developing greater confidence in particular subjects, the school’s individualised approach ensures every student receives the guidance they need to succeed.

Extracurricular engagement
Joining clubs, sports, arts programmes and societies are essential opportunities for social integration, skills development and personal discovery. Pupils who engage beyond the classroom consistently report a more fulfilling and balanced school experience.

Good schools like to encourage new pupils to try several activities during their first term before committing to those that most interest them. This exploration period allows them to discover new passions and connect with peers who share similar interests, all within a supportive community.

Building Resilience
Senior school inevitably brings new pressures – academic challenges, social complexities and sometimes, disappointments. At our school, developing resilience is central to its ethos. The school supports students in managing stress through regular physical activity, mindfulness practises, wellbeing days and ensuring adequate rest and recreation.

The pastoral team facilitates open conversations about challenges, normalising the difficulties of transition. Students are reminded that setbacks are natural and often lead to greater growth and self-awareness when approached constructively – a philosophy that prepares them not just for school but for life.

Nurturing social connections
Making new friends while maintaining existing relationships is one of the most important aspects of the transition. Our school has a house system, team activities and collaborative projects with the local community, each providing natural opportunities for social connection. The parent association organises informal gatherings with classmates and a vibrant calendar of school social events ensures every girl feels part of the community from day one.

Digital and resource readiness
At our school, we utilise state-of-the-art digital platforms for assignments, timetables and communications. Beginning September 2025, the school is implementing a 1-to-1 leased device programme, empowering students with flexibility in their learning environment while ensuring seamless access to all academic materials.

The parent’s role
As parents, striking the right balance between supportive involvement and encouraging independence can be challenging. At our school we partner with families through regular communication and parent workshops that provide valuable insights into supporting this transition. Also, an open-door policy ensures parents can always reach staff when guidance is needed.

Student testimonial from Charlotte W. Year 8
“I was incredibly nervous about moving up to senior school last year. After seven years at my small prep school, everything seemed so much bigger and more intimidating at first. But looking back, I can’t believe I was ever worried! During the first week, my form tutor organised these brilliant icebreaker activities that helped me connect with everyone quickly. The buddy system meant I had a peer who checked in regularly, which made navigating the school and new routines so much easier. What surprised me most was how quickly the teachers got to know me personally. My English teacher noticed I was quiet but had strong written ideas, so she encouraged me to join the debating club, which has completely boosted my confidence. The transition was an adjustment – I had to get used to moving between different classrooms and managing more homework – but the organisation skills we learned in the first term made a huge difference. Now I’m helping with this year’s new students, and it’s amazing to see them settling in just like I did. Coming to BHG has been the best decision ever – I’ve discovered talents I never knew I had!”

We believe a successful transition to senior school balances rigorous academic preparation with compassionate emotional support and engaging extracurricular opportunities. Our 120-year tradition of educational excellence, combined with its forward-thinking approach, creates an environment where every girl can thrive.

You are invited to experience the difference for yourself, with places available in both prep and senior school. Contact the admissions team today to arrange a visit and discover how the school transforms potential challenges into opportunities for remarkable growth and achievement.

To find out more about Burgess Hill Girls, please visit www.burgesshillgirls.com

 

Jul 01
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skateboard lesson

They’re not broken – it’s their superpower potential

By ADHD and neurodiversity, Education, fun for children, Mental health, special educational needs
by Jack Francis
The Skate Club

How passion helps neurodiverse children discover their ‘superpowers’

A few months ago, I stood in front of 200 primary school children, sharing stories from my life – skateboarding down hills with Christmas trees strapped to my board, struggling to keep up at university and writing a book I never thought I’d be able to write. As I spoke, a boy turned to his mate and whispered, “I’ve got ADHD and dyslexia – like him.” That moment stuck with me. That small moment of recognition, pride even, is why I’ve been doing these assemblies.

I was diagnosed with dyslexia at university, and ADHD much more recently, as an adult running a skate school. Growing up, these weren’t framed as ‘superpowers’. At best, they were obstacles. At worst, signs of somehow falling short. I’d often been called bright, but that made it harder – like I had all the pieces, just not the ability to put them together.

It’s only in recent years that I’ve come to see how much of what I’m good at – from teaching, to coaching, to running a business – is tied to the way my brain works. My hyperfocus, creativity, energy and problem-solving skills aren’t things I’ve achieved despite my neurodiversity. They are my neurodiversity. And I’m not alone.

The power of passion
In every school I visit, there are children sitting quietly with heads full of big ideas, or legs bouncing under the table. Some have diagnoses, many don’t. They might struggle with reading, listening, or managing frustration – but the potential in those children is massive. What they need isn’t ‘fixing’. What they need is space to explore something they care about, something that lets them feel good at being themselves. For me, that thing was skateboarding.

Skateboarding gave me freedom. It wasn’t about winning or being picked for a team. It was about solving tiny physical puzzles – how to move, how to balance and how to land a trick. It was social but low-pressure. I could focus completely on what I was doing, fail over and over again and still feel proud of the progress. Looking back, skateboarding was the first place I truly felt capable.

Today, as a skate coach, I see the same thing in other children – especially those who are neurodiverse. Children who are anxious or fidgety, or who’ve been told they “Just need to focus,” often find a rhythm through skating. I’ve watched children go from nervously standing on a board to rolling down ramps on their own, grinning from ear to ear. Some of them go home and do their reading for the first time in weeks. It’s not about the trick – it’s about the shift in how they see themselves.

Reframing ‘difficulty’
One of the challenges for neurodiverse children today is that their journey often begins with being told what they can’t do. A diagnosis, helpful as it is, can also carry an unspoken message: you’re going to struggle. And yes, there may be challenges. But there are also advantages – and children deserve to hear that side too.

Dyslexic thinkers often have strong visual and spatial awareness, creative imagination and big-picture thinking. Those with ADHD may have intense focus (on the right task), incredible energy and rapid-fire ideas. Autistic children often bring attention to detail, emotional honesty and deep interests. But these traits only shine when we let children follow what they love.

That’s the heart of it: when a child finds their passion – whether it’s skateboarding, coding, storytelling or animals – it becomes a doorway into confidence. Passion gives purpose to their focus, structure to their energy and joy to their learning. And when a child starts seeing themselves as someone who can, not just someone who struggles, everything changes.

The adult’s role
As parents, educators, and carers, our role isn’t to tell children who they are – it’s to notice when they light up, and to help them follow that thread. Sometimes that means letting them try unusual things. Sometimes it means not pushing them to do what everyone else is doing. And sometimes it just means listening when they talk about something they care about.

Skateboarding might not be your child’s thing – and that’s fine. But something is. There’s something out there that lets them feel free, focused and fully themselves. Our job is to help them find it. Not to demand they perform, but to offer them the kind of support that says, “You’re not broken – you’re just different and that’s a strength.”

I still get overwhelmed. I still struggle with admin. I still forget things. But I’ve also built a skate school, written a book and coached hundreds of young people. And I’ve done that not in spite of my neurodiversity, but because of it.

So when your child gets obsessed with something, try not to brush off. Watch closely. That might just be the spark that helps them discover their superpower.

Jack Francis is the founder of The Skate Club and author of “How to Train Your Skateboard”, a beginner’s guide to skateboarding.
www.theskateclub.com

Jul 01
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girl in forest

Let them climb

By children's health, Education, environment, fun for children, Green, Safety, Wellbeing
by Lucy Owen-Collins
Head of Adventures at Bee in the Woods

The powerful benefits of outdoor risky play

In an age of screen time, padded playgrounds and hyper-awareness of safety, it can feel instinctive to shout “Be careful!” every time your child climbs a tree or scrambles up a boulder. But what if, in our effort to protect, we’re holding our children back?

As parents, we want to keep our children safe, but research shows that too much caution can actually hold children back from vital developmental opportunities.

Risky play; those thrilling, uncertain, physical experiences like climbing, jumping from heights, balancing on logs, or exploring wild spaces – is more than just a childhood rite of passage. It’s a crucial ingredient in how children grow into confident, capable, resilient adults.

Author and childhood play advocate Tim Gill, in ‘No Fear: Growing Up in a Risk Averse Society’, argues that children need real opportunities to test their limits and take measured risks. When we support rather than suppress this kind of play, we empower children to become more aware of their bodies, make better decisions and develop lifelong emotional resilience.

The benefits of risky play
Physically, risky play helps children build strength, agility, coordination and fine motor control. Scrambling up a climbing frame, balancing on a log, or running across sand not only keeps children active – it enhances their core stability, posture and endurance.

Sensory development also thrives in outdoor play. Movements like spinning, swinging, rolling and balancing stimulate the vestibular and proprioceptive systems – key components in helping children understand where their body is in space. These experiences lay the foundation for everything from focus and attention to emotional regulation and coordination.

Cognitively, risky play sharpens problem-solving and decision-making. Children must assess their environment – “Is this branch strong enough? Can I jump that far?” – and adjust their approach in real time. This self-assessment builds independence and executive function.

Socially and emotionally, children learn to regulate emotions like fear and frustration, and to persevere after a fall or failure. When playing with others, they negotiate, take turns, lead and follow – all vital skills for life. Risky play also nurtures courage and self-esteem: there’s nothing like the glow of pride after scaling a tall rock or swinging across a stream.

Risk is not the enemy – danger is
There’s a difference between risk and danger. Risk is a challenge a child can see, consider and try to overcome. Danger is something hidden or poorly understood. As adults, our role is to assess the environment, offer guidance and stay nearby, rather than removing every possible hazard or stepping in too soon.

Forest School Leaders often use a ‘risk-benefit’ approach – recognising that the benefits of play with risk often outweigh the downsides when managed sensibly.

Supporting safe risky play: What parents can do
Instead of shutting down adventurous play, we can shift how we support it. Here are a few ways parents can help children assess risk:
• Talk it through: Ask, “What’s your plan?”, “How could you do that safely?” or “What’s your next step?” These questions should help children think critically and prepare.
• Model curiosity, not fear: Stay calm and positive, even when your instincts are shouting. You can always move closer or spot from a distance.
• Celebrate effort, not just achievement: Say, “You tried that really carefully” or “I noticed how you tested that first”, to reinforce thoughtful behaviour.
• Know your child: Every child has a different threshold for risk. Trust their instincts, but be there to encourage and, occasionally, challenge them.

What to say instead of “Be careful”
“Be careful” is vague and often ineffective. Try these alternatives:

• “Can you find a steady place for your feet?”

• “Use both hands.”

• “Take your time and notice what’s around you.”

• “What’s your plan if that wobbles?”

• “I’m right here if you need me.”

These phrases promote awareness, decision-making and reassurance without instilling fear.

Risky play in different environments: Safety tips
Outdoor environments offer rich, natural opportunities for risky play. Here’s how to support children’s exploration safely and confidently in a few common settings:

At the beach
• Water safety first: Teach children to respect the tide, watch the sea and stay within view. Watch for strong currents and always stay close when water is involved.
• Digging and climbing: Sand dunes and rock pools offer exciting climbing opportunities. Encourage kids to test ground firmness and wear shoes with grip.
• Sensory-rich play: Let children roll, bury, balance, and run. Sand is a great medium for physical and imaginative play, but remind children not to dig too deep or tunnel near unstable edges.

In the woods
• Tree climbing: Don’t lift children into trees to climb them – encourage them to understand their own abilities by climbing themselves. Encourage kids to “climb down as well as up”- if they can’t get down safely, they’re too high. Avoid trees with dead branches and teach children keep ‘three points of contact’ on the tree at all times (two hands, one foot/one hand, two feet)
• Sticks and stones: Playing with natural materials builds creativity and coordination. Teach children how to carry sticks safely (point down, away from faces).
• Rough ground: Roots, mud and slopes are ideal for balance and proprioception. Wear shoes with grip and support falls as learning moments rather than failures.

On climbing equipment or rocks
• Let them fall small: Risky play doesn’t mean no bumps or bruises, but small falls teach children to adapt and try again.
• Check surfaces: Sand, bark chips or grass under climbing equipment help cushion falls. Encourage safe jumping and always remind children to look before leaping.

Why it all matters
When we give children permission to play with risk, we do more than help them become physically stronger. We show them that we trust their judgment, believe in their resilience and honour their growing independence.

Let’s raise children who aren’t afraid to fall, try again and learn through doing. The outdoors is their natural training ground. So next time your child teeters on a tree limb or builds a fort from branches, take a breath and remember: this is childhood, exactly as it should be.

Bee in the Woods Kindergarten is a woodland preschool and community Forest School for three to seven year olds, based in Portslade and Stanmer Park in Brighton.
For more information www.beeinthewoods.co.uk

Jul 01
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The benefits of an active holiday camp

By environment, fun for children, Holiday camps, Mental health, Wellbeing
by Emily Finch
Ultimate Activity Camps

The school holidays are a time for children to take a break from the school routine, have fun, relax and recharge but they can also be an opportunity for growth, adventure and to learn new skills. Holiday camps offer a fantastic alternative to boredom at home, long hours in front of the screens and finding fun and engaging childcare solutions for parents. Active holiday camps create the perfect environment for children to stay fit and build valuable life skills through physical activities, games and team challenges.

Active holiday camps are more than a way of burning off energy. They can support children’s mental wellbeing, help them make new friends, and even spark a lifelong love for the outdoors. Whether it’s boosting their confidence through new experiences or simply encouraging healthy habits, the benefits go far beyond the holiday itself.

Improved physical health
Activities like sports, swimming, hiking and obstacle courses help improve cardiovascular fitness, strength, flexibility and coordination. Regular physical activity can also boost the immune system and supports healthy growth and development. With a range of activities throughout the day to participate in, an active holiday camp will help children get moving and trying new activities can inspire a love and help exercise to become a regular occurrence.

Being on camp for a day, a week or the whole summer can help to create a lifestyle change. An active camp creates a fun atmosphere and where it’s normalised for children to be on the move. Enjoying themselves in this environment means it is likely children will want to carry it on outside of the camp, creating a new norm. By being outside and in the natural environment, whether that is whilst on a multi-activity camp, on school playing fields or a sports specific camp on astro turf or specialist surfaces or survival camps in the woods all these will help children appreciate the outdoors, fresh air and a gain a respect for nature.

Boosts mental wellbeing
Being outdoors and engaged in fun physical activities releases endorphins that help elevate mood and reduce stress and anxieties. The regular exercise children get in an active holiday camp can also boost their mood and improve their focus. Being active will also naturally tire a child out, meaning they will come home from camp and have a deeper and more restful night’s sleep, which will help improve their overall mood and wellbeing.

Active camps also help to develop children’s social skills. They are a great place to meet new people and make new friends. Many activities on an active camp involve an element of teamwork, bringing all kinds of children together to work towards a common goal. Children learn to communicate, co-operate, resolve conflicts and support one another – skills that are essential in all areas of life. The shared experiences create lasting memories and bonds.

Active camps also help build confidence and independence. Trying new activities with new friends and succeeding while being supported by new peers helps build confidence and self-esteem. Whether it’s on the football pitch or in the art room, being praised and supported by others leaves children with a sense of achievement. Being in a new environment without their parents, with unfamiliar faces and possibly unfamiliar surroundings, encourages children to step out of their comfort zone. They learn to adapt to new instructors/teachers and navigate new conversations and friendships on their own, giving them invaluable life lessons and skills.

Reduces screen time
Holiday camps, and active camps especially, can be a great way to pry digital devices from children’s hands. The limited screen time creates a great opportunity to reconnect with play, the outdoors and simple childhood fun! With all the activities on offer and action-packed timetables, children’s devices will be a distant memory. Reduced screen time increases focus, creativity and emotional regulation, on and off of camp.

Promotes learning through play
Many activity camps incorporate learning into the timetable, almost like sneaking extra vegetables into dinner by cutting it very fine! This can be through teamwork, creative thinking or STEM. Activities like team-based problem-solving games, treasure hunts and movement-based STEM challenges help children develop critical thinking, communication and collaboration skills. All while staying active, making learning feel exciting and rewarding. Whether they’re figuring out clues in a scavenger hunt or building a structure that can withstand movement, children are developing skills that will benefit them long after the camp day ends.

At Ultimate Activity Camps, children can enjoy a range of over 40 sports, games and craft activities each week, led by inspiring staff in superb facilities – running at 45 locations this summer! For further information about camps near you please visit www.ultimateactivity.co.uk

Jul 01
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A musical childhood

By Education, Mental health, Music and singing
by Sarah Jones
Director of Prep School Music St Catherine’s

Head of Prep School Music at St Catherine’s, Sarah Jones, explains why she believes that music is such an important part of a primary school education. Music has been deeply woven into human culture for centuries, from the rhythmic beats of ancient drums to the intricate compositions of classical symphonies and the infectious tunes of modern pop.

For children, music is more than just entertainment – it plays a crucial role in their cognitive, social and emotional growth. In primary schools, where young minds are highly receptive, incorporating music into the curriculum provides benefits that extend well beyond the classroom. As education becomes increasingly focused on academic assessments, it is essential to acknowledge the importance of music education and preserve its place as a fundamental part of the primary school experience.

One of the most convincing reasons to incorporate music into primary education is its significant impact on cognitive development. Research consistently shows that music education enhances brain function in ways that boost academic achievement. Children who participate in music learning exhibit improved language skills, better memory retention and enhanced problem-solving abilities. For instance, playing an instrument requires the brain to decode complex symbols and translate them into physical movements, stimulating both the left and right hemispheres, which strengthens neural connections.

Additionally, music education is closely linked to improved maths skills. The rhythmic patterns in music closely align with mathematical concepts like fractions, sequencing and spatial awareness. As children practice these rhythms, they naturally reinforce their understanding of essential mathematical ideas in a fun and intuitive way.

Beyond academic benefits, music plays a significant role in supporting emotional and social development. In the early years of primary school, children are learning to navigate complex emotional landscapes and form social bonds. Music provides a safe and expressive outlet for emotions, allowing children to process feelings that may be difficult to articulate through words alone.

Group musical activities, such as choral singing or instrumental ensemble performances, encourage teamwork and cooperation. In these settings, children learn to listen to each other, maintain rhythm together and contribute to a collective goal. As well as being lots of fun, these experiences foster a sense of belonging and teach essential life skills like empathy, patience and collaboration. For many children, participation in musical activities boosts self-esteem and provides a sense of achievement, especially when they perform in front of an audience.

In an educational system with a focus on standardised testing, there is a risk that creativity might take a backseat. However, creativity is an essential skill for future success, and music education offers an ideal platform for its cultivation. Through music, children are encouraged to explore, experiment, and express their individuality. Whether they are composing original songs, improvising with instruments, or interpreting music in their own unique way, these activities promote creative thinking and innovation.

Moreover, music provides opportunities for cultural awareness and appreciation. Exposure to diverse musical traditions broadens children’s perspectives and helps them develop a deeper understanding of the world. Through music, they learn to value diversity and embrace a global outlook – qualities that are vital in today’s interconnected world.

Music education also plays a key role in developing fine and gross motor skills. For instance, playing an instrument demands precise finger movements, hand-eye coordination, and good timing. Even simple activities like clapping to a beat or dancing to music help improve physical coordination and rhythm. These motor skills are particularly important in the early years when children are honing their physical abilities.

Additionally, music and movement activities contribute to physical wellbeing. Dancing to music provides a fun and engaging form of exercise, helping to counteract sedentary habits and fostering a lifelong enjoyment of movement. This well-rounded approach to education recognises the connection between mind and body, supporting both physical and cognitive growth.

The benefits of music education extend well beyond the primary school years. Early exposure to music often sparks a lifelong passion for the arts, whether as a personal interest or a professional pursuit. Children who engage with music at a young age are more likely to continue enjoying and participating in musical activities throughout their lives.

Additionally, the skills fostered through music – such as discipline, perseverance and the ability to work toward long-term goals – are valuable in many other aspects of life. Learning to play an instrument or master a musical piece requires patience and consistent effort, teaching children the importance of hard work and delayed gratification. These lessons become essential as they grow and encounter new challenges.

Music is a cornerstone of a holistic education. Its benefits extend across cognitive, emotional, social, and physical development, nurturing skills essential for academic achievement and personal growth. In a rapidly evolving world, where creativity and adaptability are highly valued, the significance of music education cannot be overstated. By prioritising music in primary schools, we provide children with the tools they need to succeed while fostering a lifelong passion for learning and self-expression. A musical childhood is not only an educational asset – it is a gift that lasts a lifetime.

St Catherine’s Prep School extends a warm welcome to parents who would like to visit the school. Visit www.stcatherines.info to find out more about upcoming open mornings and arranging a visit.

 

Mar 26
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Exam stress

By Education, Mental health
by Edmond Chan
Childline Practitioner

As we begin to welcome in the spring, the lighter evenings and warmer weather, as parents of school-age children, we also start to usher in exam season – a period which can bring with it anxiety and worry for parents and children alike.

Older children can sometimes be a bit more accustomed to the process of revision and exam preparation. But for children at primary school about to do their SATs, it’s often the first time they’ve experienced the examination process, and it can feel very daunting.

One 11-year-old girl* who contacted Childline told counsellors: “I’m stressing out about taking my SATs. It’s a lot of pressure and I worry I’ll be in the bottom set. My older siblings didn’t have to take them because of COVID. I feel like nobody understands or listens to me.”

Exams can be extremely stressful for children and cause them a lot of worry and anxiety. But there are some simple things you can do to support them and help them prepare.

Before the exam, you can help them take control by designing a revision plan together and building time for relaxation into it. If you’re not sure where to start, the BBC Bitesize revision planner can help you: www.bbc.co.uk/bitesize/articles/zn3497h

It’s important to remove any distractions so they can focus on their revision. Make sure they put their phone away and turn off the TV during their revision sessions to aid their concentration. You could even offer screen-time as a reward for revision time.

A good night’s sleep is really important, so make sure they go to bed early to get some rest the night before an exam. This will help them more than revising all night. And don’t forget to set your alarm to get them up and ready for school in plenty of time.

On the day of the exam, it can help to try and stay positive. Remind them all they can do is try their best. If they’re worried, they could try watching some funny clips on YouTube – laughing could help them feel less stressed.

They might say they don’t feel like eating, but ensuring they eat a good breakfast before they leave the house will help them feel energised and improve their focus. Drinking lots of water to stay hydrated is vital too, and if they start to feel stressed or anxious, suggest they try taking deep, slow, calming breaths in through their nose and out through their mouth.

During the exam it’s important they read the instructions on the paper before they start and ask if they’re not sure about anything. Remind them to take a moment to read the question and a few seconds to breathe before they start writing anything, to help them gather their thoughts.

If there’s a choice of questions, it might be best to start on the ones they know they can answer best, leaving some time to read over the answers at the end. If they get stuck, suggest they move onto a question that they can answer better.

When a child is worried, one of the most important things they can do is to talk about how they’re feeling. Talking can reduce the pressure and help them to feel more in control, so remind them they can come and talk to you about any worries they have. But if they find that difficult, they can talk to Childline, free and in confidence.

Children and young people can call 0800 1111 to speak to a trained volunteer counsellor over the phone or visit www.childline.org.uk to chat online using our 1-2-1 service.

You can find lots more advice and practical tips on the Childline website www.childline.org.uk/info-advice/school-college-and-work.

*Snapshots are based on real Childline service users but are not necessarily direct quotes. All names and potentially identifying details have been changed to protect the identity of the child or young person involved.

 

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