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Mar 02
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Family mediation and child‑focused parenting through separation

By children's health, Finance, Legal, Mental health
by Yulia Osudina
YO Mediation

Separation or divorce is a significant transition for any family. When children are involved, parents often experience heightened concern about how decisions relating to living arrangements, schooling, routines and communication will affect their children’s emotional wellbeing. Research and best practice consistently show that children cope best with separation when parents manage conflict constructively and keep children’s needs at the centre of all decision‑making.

Family mediation provides a confidential and structured environment in which parents are supported to reach practical, child‑focused solutions tailored to their family. Mediation encourages cooperation, respectful communication and problem-solving.

What is family mediation?
Family mediation is a facilitated process in which an impartial, trained mediator helps parents communicate more effectively, explore options and reach mutually acceptable agreements. Rather than focusing on blame or past conflict, mediation looks forward, helping parents plan for their children’s future in a way that minimises stress and disruption.

Mediation can address a wide range of issues, including financial matters and arrangements for children. In this article however, the focus is on child arrangements mediation. This can support parents in resolving disagreements about where their children live and spend time – which school they attend, term-time routines and holiday planning, special occasions such as Christmas and New Year’s, grandparents’ visits, religious upbringing and arrangements that take account of special educational needs (SEN), as well as many other aspects of family life.

A key principle of mediation is that parents remain in control of decisions affecting their children. The mediator does not take sides or impose outcomes, but supports both parents to focus on what will best support their children’s stability, security and emotional development.

A child‑focused approach to mediation
While separation ends an adult relationship, it does not end parenting. As such, mediation can help parents to shift from a couple‑focused mindset to a co‑parenting one.

A child‑focused mediation process helps parents to:
• Consider decisions from the child’s perspective rather than through parental conflict.
• Recognise how ongoing disputes can affect children emotionally and behaviourally.
• Develop arrangements that promote consistency, reassurance and strong relationships with both parents where it is safe to do so.
• Communicate in ways that reduce tension and model positive behaviour for children.

Mediators support parents to keep discussions centred on children’s day‑to‑day experiences, such as routines, schooling, holidays, communication and transitions between homes. This practical focus helps reduce emotional escalation and keeps conversations constructive.

When mediation is particularly helpful
Mediation can be especially effective:
• At an early stage of separation, before positions become entrenched.
• When parents wish to avoid the stress, cost and delay of court proceedings.
• Where communication has broken down but both parents remain committed to their children’s wellbeing.
• For families with young children who benefit from predictable routines and low conflict.
• In cases involving children with special educational needs or additional vulnerabilities, where careful planning and cooperation are essential.

Supporting children with Special Educational Needs (SEN)
For families with children who have special educational needs, separation can present additional challenges. These children may rely heavily on routine, consistency and coordinated support across home and school environments.

Mediation provides a structured space for parents to:
• Share information about their child’s needs, support plans and professional input.
• Discuss how routines, therapies and educational arrangements will be managed across two households.
• Agree on communication methods that ensure both parents remain informed
and involved.
• Reduce misunderstandings that can arise when stress and uncertainty are high.

A mediator with experience in SEN matters can help parents focus on practical, realistic arrangements that prioritise the child’s wellbeing while recognising each parent’s capacity and circumstances.

Child‑inclusive mediation
In some cases, and where appropriate, mediation can include the child’s voice. Child‑inclusive mediation is usually suitable for children aged around ten and over, depending on their maturity and circumstances. This approach allows children to speak privately with a specially trained professional, ensuring their views are heard without placing responsibility on them for decision‑making.

The purpose is not for children to choose outcomes, but to give parents insight into how their child is experiencing the separation. For younger children, mediation remains parent‑focused, with decisions guided by professional understanding of children’s developmental needs.

The benefits of early, child‑focused mediation
Engaging in mediation at an early stage can have lasting benefits for the whole family:
• Reduced conflict and improved communication between parents.
• Faster, more flexible resolutions than court‑based processes.
• Tailored arrangements that reflect the unique needs of each child.
• Greater emotional security for children through consistent, cooperative parenting.
• A stronger foundation for long‑term co‑parenting.

Preparing for mediation
Parents can help mediation be as effective as possible by:
• Approaching the process with a willingness to listen and reflect.
• Keeping the focus on their children’s needs rather than past grievances.
• Gathering relevant information, such as school reports or support plans.
• Being open to compromise in the interests of stability and reassurance for their children.

Family mediation, guided by child‑focused principles such as those set out by Resolution’s ‘Parenting Through Separation’ framework, offers parents a constructive way forward during an emotionally challenging time. By prioritising children’s needs, reducing conflict and encouraging cooperative co‑parenting, mediation supports families in creating arrangements that promote security, resilience and positive long‑term outcomes for children.

For parents seeking a calm, respectful and child‑centred approach to separation, mediation provides a valuable alternative to adversarial processes and helps lay the groundwork for healthy parenting relationships in the years ahead.

For further information on how Yulia Osudina at YO Mediation can help you in your own circumstances please visit www.yomediation.com or email yulia@yomediation.com

Mar 02
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Supporting children’s seasonal allergies

By baby health, children's health, Health
by Ben Murray
Dukes Education Group Ltd

Helping little ones breathe easier during the changing seasons

For many families, spring and summer bring lighter evenings, outdoor play and family adventures. But for some young children, these seasons also introduce sneezing, itchy eyes and unsettled sleep. Seasonal allergies, often referred to as hay fever, are increasingly common in early childhood, and while they are more frequently diagnosed in older children, babies and toddlers can experience symptoms too.

For parents of children aged under five, recognising the signs early and knowing how to support your child both at home and in their early years setting can make a significant difference to their comfort, wellbeing and ability to enjoy daily activities.

What are seasonal allergies in young children?
Seasonal allergies occur when the immune system overreacts to airborne allergens such as pollen from grass, trees or weeds. In young children, symptoms can sometimes look different from those seen in adults and may include:
• A constantly runny or blocked nose.
• Frequent sneezing.
• Red, itchy or watery eyes.
• Irritated skin or eczema flare-ups.
• Coughing, particularly at night.
• Increased tiredness or irritability.

Because colds are common in the early years, allergies can easily be mistaken for repeated infections. One helpful clue is duration – allergy symptoms tend to persist for weeks and may worsen outdoors or at specific times of year.

Why early support matters
Under the Early Years Foundation Stage (EYFS), children’s health and wellbeing are central to their learning and development. When a child is uncomfortable or struggling to sleep due to allergies, it can affect their mood, appetite, concentration and enjoyment of play.

Supporting allergies effectively is not just about symptom relief – it helps children feel safe, settled and able to engage fully with their environment. It also supports the development of healthy self-awareness as children begin to recognise and communicate how they are feeling.

Practical ways parents can help at home
There are many simple, evidence-informed steps parents can take to reduce allergen exposure and ease symptoms:
• Check pollen forecasts and plan outdoor activities for times when levels are lower, such as early morning or after rainfall.
• Change clothes and wash hands and faces after outdoor play to reduce pollen being brought indoors.
• Keep windows closed in bedrooms during high pollen periods, especially at night.
• Maintain good sleep routines, as tiredness can worsen allergy symptoms.
• Speak to a pharmacist or GP before giving any allergy medication to young children, particularly under the age of five.
• For babies and toddlers who cannot yet describe how they feel, observing changes in behaviour, sleep or feeding can help parents identify when allergies may be affecting them.

Supporting allergies in Early Years settings
In high-quality Early Years provision, supporting children with allergies is part of a broader commitment to inclusive, responsive care. At our nurseries, we work closely with families to ensure every child’s individual needs are understood and supported.

Our approach includes:
• Clear allergy information sharing: Parents provide detailed health information on enrolment, including known or suspected allergies. This information is regularly reviewed and updated.
• Individual care plans: Where a child has diagnosed allergies, we work with parents and health professionals to create a tailored care plan, ensuring consistent support across the day.
• Staff training: Our teams receive regular training on recognising allergy symptoms, administering medication where appropriate, and responding calmly and confidently to children’s needs.
• Environmental awareness: We carefully plan outdoor play, balancing the benefits of fresh air and physical activity with awareness of pollen levels and children’s sensitivities.
• Communication with families: Ongoing, open communication ensures parents know how their child has been during the day and can share any changes in symptoms or treatment.

Importantly, we approach allergy management in a calm, reassuring way, helping children feel secure rather than anxious about their symptoms.

Helping children build resilience and awareness
Even at a young age, children can begin to understand their bodies. Simple, age-appropriate language such as “Your eyes feel itchy today, so we’re going to help them feel better” supports emotional development and self-confidence.

Encouraging children to wash hands, blow noses gently (when developmentally appropriate), and rest when needed builds early self-care skills. These small routines align closely with EYFS principles of promoting independence and wellbeing.

Working together for children’s wellbeing
Seasonal allergies can be challenging, but with the right support, children can continue to enjoy exploring, learning and playing throughout the year. When parents and Early Years providers work in partnership, sharing information and best practise, children benefit from consistent, nurturing care wherever they are.

By staying informed, responsive and child-centred, we can ensure that even during peak allergy seasons, our youngest children feel comfortable, supported and free to thrive.

Dukes Education Group run both Hove Village and Reflections Nursery and Forest School in Sussex.
To discuss opportunities at Hove Village please call 01273 037449 or visit www.hovevillage.com
To discuss opportunities at Reflections Nursery please call 01903 251518 or visit www.reflectionsnurseries.co.uk

Dukes Education Group run both Riverside Nursery Schools and The Kindergartens in Surrey/London.
To discuss opportunities at Riverside Nursery Schools please call 020 3475 0455 or visit www.riversidenurseryschools.com
To discuss opportunities at The Kindergartens please call 020 7326 8765 or visit www.thekindergartens.com

Mar 01
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Beyond the bell – Enriching every child’s school journey

By family, fun for children, Holiday, Playing, Sport, Sprintime, Wellbeing
by Mrs Faye White
Assistant Principal Pupil Engagement, Shoreham College

Education is often understood as the transmission of knowledge: facts learned, skills practised and qualifications achieved. Yet anyone who has worked in or experienced education knows that the true power of schooling lies not only in what children learn, but in how they grow. A truly enriching school journey nurtures curiosity, builds character and helps young people understand both the world around them and their place within it. It is in this broader sense that enrichment becomes not a luxury, but a vital part of education.

Enrichment gives learning depth, meaning and relevance. It allows children to make connections between what they encounter in the classroom and what they experience beyond it. It supports personal development alongside academic progress and helps pupils become confident, resilient and engaged learners. Trips, visits, residential opportunities and clubs all play a crucial role in this process, bringing learning to life and ensuring that education is not simply remembered, but lived.

Trips and educational visits are often a child’s first step into seeing learning in the real world. A visit to a museum transforms history from dates and diagrams into tangible stories. A trip to a science centre allows pupils to experiment, explore and question. A walk in a woodland or along a coastline turns environmental science into something that can be seen, heard and felt. These experiences anchor learning in memory and emotion, making it far more likely to be understood and retained. Beyond their academic value, trips and visits also promote social learning. Children learn to travel together, behave responsibly in public spaces and represent their school community with pride. They learn to ask questions, listen carefully and engage respectfully with experts and guides. In doing so, they develop communication skills, confidence and a sense of belonging to something larger than themselves.

Residential experiences take enrichment a step further by offering children the chance to grow personally as well as academically. For many pupils, a residential trip is the first time they have spent an extended period away from home. This brings with it excitement, uncertainty and challenge, all of which are powerful tools for learning. On residentials, children learn independence in practical ways: organising their belongings, managing routines and taking responsibility for themselves and others. They learn resilience by facing unfamiliar situations, trying new activities and overcoming small setbacks. Whether it is climbing a wall, navigating a trail or performing in front of peers, these challenges build confidence and self-belief. Just as importantly, residentials strengthen relationships. Pupils learn to support one another, to work as a team and to develop empathy and understanding. They see their teachers not only as instructors, but as mentors and role models. These shared experiences build trust, community and a sense of belonging that often carries back into school life long after the trip has ended.

Clubs and enrichment activities further enhance the school journey by offering pupils opportunities to explore interests beyond the core curriculum. Sports clubs encourage physical health, teamwork and perseverance. Creative clubs such as art, music and drama nurture imagination, self-expression and confidence. STEM clubs, coding groups and problem-solving activities promote logical thinking, innovation and curiosity. Gardening, debating and cultural clubs broaden perspectives and develop responsibility, communication and global awareness. These activities allow children to discover strengths they may not otherwise recognise. A child who struggles in the classroom may shine on the sports field, in a rehearsal room or during a practical project. This recognition builds self-esteem and motivation, helping pupils to see themselves as capable and valued learners. Clubs also offer safe spaces for children to take risks, make mistakes and learn from them, an essential part of developing resilience and a growth mindset.

Alongside these experiences, schools should also play a vital role in helping young people connect with their communities and understand the value of contributing to others. Through charity fundraising, volunteering and enterprise projects, pupils learn that they are not only learners, but citizens with the power to make a difference. Many access this through inspiring initiatives such as the Duke of Edinburgh’s Award, partnerships with local care homes, beach cleans, fun runs, food collections and community events. These experiences teach empathy, compassion and social responsibility in ways no textbook can. Becoming a well-rounded adult requires learning not only how to achieve, but how to give; not only how to succeed, but how to support others. The value of this learning is profound, both for the individual and for society, and it is something schools nurture with care, creativity and commitment.

Together, these enrichment opportunities create a holistic education that prepares pupils not only for exams, but for life. They help children develop essential life skills, collaboration, adaptability, empathy, leadership and perseverance. They expose pupils to new environments, cultures and ideas, broadening horizons and raising aspirations. They help children understand that learning is not confined to a classroom or a timetable but is a lifelong journey.

In an increasingly complex and fast-changing world, this kind of education is more important than ever. Young people need more than knowledge; they need the confidence to navigate uncertainty, the curiosity to keep learning and the resilience to face challenges. Enrichment provides the space and structure for these qualities to grow. To enrich a child’s school journey is to invest in their whole development, academic, social, emotional and personal. It is to recognise that education is not simply about preparing children for the next stage, but about helping them become thoughtful, capable and compassionate individuals. Trips, residentials, clubs and community engagement are not add-ons to learning; they are integral to it. They are the experiences that children remember, the moments that shape identity and the opportunities that open doors.

In enriching their school journey, we do more than teach. It is beyond the bell that education becomes experience, and it is through enrichment that every child’s school journey is truly transformed.

Please call 01273 592681 to find out more about what Shoreham College can offer you, or to arrange a personal visit at any time of the school year.
www.shorehamcollege.co.uk

Mar 01
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Life lessons and character in the classroom from the very start

By Early Years, Education, Independence, Wellbeing
by Matthew Jelley
Head of Junior School, Claremont Fan Court School

This article explores how skills like critical thinking, creativity and independent learning complement academic study to nurture confident, resilient and adaptable young pupils, ready to explore, grow and take on the world.

We all know that life can throw the unexpected as us – as Forrest Gump said, “Life is like a box of chocolates” and whilst we might want to pick out the fudge, we may end up with the coffee cream… So, how do schools provide the foundations for success right from the start of learning journeys and prepare our children for the challenges and unpredictability of life beyond the safety of the school walls? And when we read about character education, what does this actually mean?

Abraham Lincoln defined character as your actions when you know that you ‘would never be found out’, which suggests that in considering character education, we need to ensure that children understand the benefits of acting, for want of a better term, morally – and doing so in the knowledge that this is not only good for others but good for themselves as well.

In the classroom, this can be achieved by creating a culture where the habits that support effective learning are made explicit: problem solving, critical thinking, collaboration, communication, attentiveness and connection-making – though far from exhaustive, these are some of the habits crucial to future success in learning. A classroom that routinely demonstrates these behaviours will support both individual and group success – learning rarely happens in isolation as it’s a social process, after all. And schools must explicitly value these behaviours, noticing and celebrating the children’s efforts through assemblies, awards and recognition, as they work to become more effective learners.

Second, messaging around desirable character qualities, or virtues, should act as a golden thread to tie together all of school activity, again showing the mutual benefit to our selves and others of behaving in this way. A school’s curriculum extends far beyond what’s taught in the classroom so trips and residentials, recreational time, sport, music, drama, clubs, service, charity, outreach and pupil voice all present opportunities to learn how one’s character can be developed. This helps to develop greater independence, build resilience and solve problems, pushing children out of their comfort zone in order to thrive, and providing real life experience to illustrate the benefit that comes when we embrace challenge. And in all these activities children should be mindful, and reminded, of their commitment to acting in accordance with a prescribed set of values, where individual happiness and success is valued alongside that of the whole community.

Curriculum must be aligned with character based aims too. The content of what children learn can be carefully curated to provide examples, from history and contemporary society, of character qualities in action. This includes how to cope with adversity, how perseverance can pay off, why collaboration, teamwork and empathy are integral human qualities and why tolerance and respect are crucial to a healthy, functioning society.

Finally, we know that the most effective learning takes place when we are pushed beyond what is comfortable, and this goes for character education too. School culture should openly celebrate challenge, actively foster independence and autonomy and support children in understanding of where one ‘fits’. This means that processes and policies, for example an approach to behaviour management, conflict resolution and the management of recreational play, should be aligned with developing positive character traits, and support children in finding what makes them tick and how they can best ‘fit’ with others. This means providing children with the space to be themselves and to make mistakes, but safe in the knowledge that they have adults around them who support and care for them, who will be there to lend a helping hand but are committed to ensuring that they can stand on their own two feet to be productive, happy and successful future citizens.

Nestled in 100 acres of historic parkland in Esher, Surrey, Claremont is an independent co-educational HMC school for girls and boys aged two to eighteen, offering an academically ambitious environment that inspires and nurtures the whole child.
Find out more: www.claremontfancourt.co.uk/newsletter-and-events
Email: admissions@claremont.surrey.sch.uk Tel: 01372 46404

 

Nov 18
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toilet training

Why toilet training a year earlier is an urgent issue

By baby health, Childcare and Nannying, children's health, Health, special educational needs, Wellbeing

Toilet training children a year earlier could solve a host of issues in the education and health service and improve children’s overall health and wellbeing – so why aren’t policymakers pushing forward measures to support families doing it sooner?

ERIC, The Children’s Bowel & Bladder Charity, with support from Kindred Squared and Jodie Gosling MP, recently hosted a Parliamentary roundtable discussion bringing together key stakeholders in early years, education and children’s health and social care, to discuss the huge impact delayed toilet training is having on children’s lives. The discussion centered around the significant opportunities that exist to improve children’s health, social care, education and wellbeing by toilet training earlier.

The charity is pushing for clear guidance around toilet training, greater benchmarking of children’s progress, and standardised training for professionals supporting families in early years (including health visitors and early years practitioners).

Over the last two generations, the average age that children are being toilet trained in the UK has risen from 12-18 months, to an average of around three or even four years today. Later toilet training increases the risk of developing wetting and soiling issues later and also prevents the early identification of bladder and bowel problems.

The impact is profound across education, health and social care:
• A staggering 1 in 4 children start school still not toilet trained.
• 90% of teachers have at least one child in their class who is not fully toilet trained.
• On average 2.4 hours of teacher time is lost every day supporting children who are not school ready to catch up – directly affecting educational outcomes for all children in the class and hampering the Government’s mission to ensure children start school ready to learn.
• Hospital admissions for childhood constipation (which can be exacerbated by delayed toilet training) have increased by 60% over the past decade (over 44,000 children last year).

The charity argues that if children were toilet trained a year earlier, it would improve outcomes for children, save children’s health and education services time and money, and reduce the environmental impact of nappies going to landfill. The potential positive impacts are significant:
• Reduce the social and emotional impact of delayed toilet training on the child: Two thirds of teachers (65%) and 58% of parents agree that not being ready for school when starting Reception could have long term impacts on a child’s success in later life. Ensuring they are toilet trained well in advance of starting school means they’re less likely to feel embarrassed or be ostracized from their peers, which can have a profound effect on their early days in school.
• Better education: If they didn’t have to deal with children who weren’t toilet trained, teachers could save up to 456 hours – that’s around 10 days of extra teaching time they could spend focusing on improving children’s education over the academic year.
• Better health: There is a link between delayed toilet training and childhood constipation. Currently 1 in 3 children suffer from constipation. In a single year, the NHS spent £168 million treating constipation.
By preventing a number of children from suffering from this, it could also save the NHS a significant amount. The cost of treating constipation is equivalent to funding 7304 newly qualified nurses for a year.
• Better for the environment: It’s estimated that the average child uses between 4,000 and 6,000 disposable nappies before they are toilet trained, and the UK disposes of around 3bn disposable nappies annually. If every child was toilet trained one year earlier, we could save between 5.3bn – 7.1bn nappies from going to landfill.
• Cost savings for parents: Parents in the UK can expect to spend approximately £1,000 on disposable nappies per child from birth to toilet training. This translates to about £400 per year for disposable nappies. So by toilet training earlier, they could save themselves up to £400 – that’s equivalent to about two weeks of nursery fees in some parts of the country, or perhaps a UK family holiday.

Siân Wicks, CEO of ERIC, The Children’s Bowel & Bladder Charity said: “ERIC calls for children to be toilet trained a year earlier. We have reviewed the evidence base, examined the impact on the child and family that delayed toilet training has. It is time to reduce the stigma. It is essential that we raise the profile of this debate. We are calling for clear national guidance, both for families and professionals, particularly for those who support children in early years.There has been clear guidance on issues like breastfeeding and sleep, but not on toilet training; yet, as we’ve seen, this is causing a host of issues that are costing families, society and the government dearly. There needs to be a greater sense of collective responsibility for children’s bowel and bladder health, and all stakeholders across government, children’s health, education and social care need to work together to support families to reach this milestone sooner.”

Felicity Gillespie, Director of Kindred Squared said: “Our research shows that parents are keen for clear, simple and evidence-backed advice. That’s why we’ve worked with the early years sector to produce startingreception.co.uk. The medical evidence is clear; unless there is a diagnosed medical need, children are best served by being out of nappies between 18 and 30 months. We welcome Eric’s efforts to spread this information as widely as possible!”

Jodie Gosling, MP, said: “Too many children are starting school feeling anxious, isolated, or even ashamed – simply because they haven’t been supported to reach a basic developmental milestone: being toilet trained. The removal of Sure Start provision has left families without the necessary infrastructure to learn and thrive. This isn’t just about nappies. It’s about dignity. It’s about confidence. And it’s about giving every child the best possible start in life. We’ve heard today how delayed toilet training is affecting not just individual children, but their families, entire classrooms, our NHS, and our environment. The evidence is clear – and the cost of inaction is too high. This is an issue that requires urgent, coordinated action. We need clear national guidance, better training for early years professionals, and a shared commitment across government to support families in reaching this milestone sooner. Because when we help children thrive from the very beginning, we all benefit.”

Alison Morton, CEO of Institute of Health Visiting, said: “Gaining mastery of your own bladder and bowel function is an important milestone in a child’s development. However, toileting practices and advice have changed over the years, and are heavily impacted by marketing tactics to delay toileting and prolong the use of nappies under the guise of ‘waiting until children are ready’. This has a human, financial and environmental cost. I encourage all professionals to maintain high expectations for the ability of all children, including those with disabilities, to achieve the skills for toileting. Unnecessary delays and low expectations are limiting children’s life chances and can have lifelong consequences. Getting this right is not really a choice, it is fundamental for children’s dignity, safety and quality of life”.

For further information please visit www.eric.org.uk

Nov 18
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The silent sugar surge – and how parents can help their children eat smarter

By baby health, Education, Exercise, family, Food & Eating
by Monica Price
Nutritional Therapist

Being a parent can be full of challenges – especially when you have to start navigating food for your children. When you step into any supermarket you’ll be surrounded by brightly packaged snacks, ‘low sugar’ yogurts, cartoon-covered cereal boxes, and juice pouches that claim to be ‘healthy’ or ‘natural’. But behind the clever marketing lies a harsh truth because many of these convenience foods are packed with hidden sugars and they’re contributing to a worrying trend of the rise in childhood obesity and early years health issues, such as Type 2 diabetes, high blood pressure and even liver problems.

Sugar isn’t just in sweets. It hides in cereals, granola bars, yogurt, flavoured water and juice, pasta sauces, ketchup, snack packs and shop bought ready-made meals.

Many of these foods are marketed to look like the healthy choice – but even a ‘no added sugar’ fruit snack can have as much sugar as a small chocolate bar.

The UK NHS recommends no more than 19g (about five teaspoons) of free sugars per day for children aged four to six. Some popular children’s yogurts contain more than that in one pot.

So what can you do?
Making healthy food choices for your child doesn’t have to mean cutting out all treats or spending hours in the kitchen.

It’s about education, awareness of food and making small changes to their diet that make a big difference over time.

My top five tips are:
1. Learn to read food labels together
Turn your shopping trip into a mini scavenger hunt – teach your child to spot sugar on labels. It hides under many names, including:
• Glucose
• Fructose
• Corn syrup
• Honey
• Fruit juice concentrate

Aim for foods with less than 5g of sugar per 100g for everyday choices.

Top Tip: If sugar is listed in the first three ingredients – it’s a red flag so avoid it.

2. Reduce sugary snacks
Total sugar bans can lead to obsession or secret snacking for a child so instead:
• Save sugary treats for special occasions, like birthdays or weekends
• Offer fruits, nuts, cheese, or oatcakes as after-school snacks
• Use words to explain to your child so they can understand.

Children learn by repetition and routine. The more you offer better options, the more likely they’ll get used to them.

3. Cook together and talk about food
Children are far more likely to try something if they have helped make it.
• Get them to wash vegetables, stir sauces, or choose toppings
• Talk about where food comes from – what grows in the ground, what animals produce and how it ends up on their plate
• Try growing herbs, tomatoes or lettuce at home or in a pot on a windowsill

This helps them connect food with health and gives them ownership over their choices.

4. Offer variety without pressure
We often fall into the habit of rotating the same four or five meals and snacks our children claim they like, but start to introduce different foods to encourage a healthy gut, stronger immunity and lower sugar cravings.

Don’t stress if your child doesn’t take to a new food right away. It can sometimes take up to 10 -15 tries before a child accepts something new.

Top Tip: Put new foods next to familiar ones instead of replacing them. A few slices of raw pepper beside their usual sandwich for example.

5. Choose water first
Juice, squash and fizzy drinks are the biggest sources of unnecessary sugar for children.

Even 100% fruit juice, while natural, is high in sugar and lacks the fibre whole fruit offers.
• Make water the default drink
• Try adding fresh fruit, cucumber, or mint for natural flavour
• Save juices and fizzy drinks for occasional treats – not as a daily habit.

Remember you are not alone – it’s OK if your child doesn’t eat kale or quinoa – what matters is that you are teaching them to understand what healthy food is, to empower them as they grow older to make informed choices.

You are then setting the stage for life long healthy eating habits – and that is one of the greatest gifts you can give to your child.

Monica Price is a qualified Nutritional Therapist, Writer and Broadcaster. She is the go-to expert for health and wellbeing on national television and radio stations across the UK.

www.monica-price.co.uk

 

Nov 15
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Forest-school

Why children need outdoor play – and simple ways to encourage it

By Early Years, Education, environment, Forest School, Wellbeing

by Dr John Allan,
Head of Impact and Breakthrough Learning at PGL Beyond

In a world dominated by screens, getting children outdoors has never been more urgent – or more important. Outdoor activity offers far more than just physical exercise: it nurtures resilience, builds confidence and develops a wide range of skills that can’t be replicated indoors.

Outdoor play provides conditions rarely found indoors. The unpredictability and multi-sensory nature of being outdoors challenges children to think creatively. Outdoor activities encourage children to explore, make decisions and adapt, building confidence and independence along the way. A child who is used to this is more likely to view setbacks in life as problems that can be solved, or even as stepping stones to growth.

Research shows that children who develop strong psychosocial skills early report better adult outcomes, including higher educational attainment, stronger employment prospects and improved mental health.

Learning new skills – whether physical, cognitive or social – is fundamental to healthy development. Outdoor experiences accelerate this process by fostering a balance of physical, social cognitive and emotional literacy at a time when brain development is most rapid.

Building resilience is central to this process. Psychosocial skills – such as self-awareness, empathy, creativity and adaptability – are established through varied, hands-on, practical experiences. Children who overcome physical obstacles can learn to ‘bounce beyond’ their original position, facing future challenges of all kinds with greater strength. This helps them to build the confidence and mental flexibility that supports both academic achievement and long-term wellbeing.

Getting children away from screens and embracing the outdoors
To inspire children to swap screens for fresh air, make outdoor activity accessible and enjoyable. Start small: set mini challenges such as a scavenger hunt or a timed bike ride. Lead by example – children are more likely to embrace the outdoors if parents value it too, whether through weekend walks, gardening or simply spending time outside together.

You can also weave outdoor experiences into daily routines; taking homework into the garden, organising play dates outdoors or using walks to school as opportunities to explore and chat. Consistency is key; when outdoor activity becomes a natural part of daily life, children see it as rewarding rather than a chore.

Five practical ways to encourage outdoor play
1. Choose a mix of activities
Outdoor play can come in many forms – climbing, cycling, splashing in puddles or exploring woodlands. Progressive exposure to uncertainty is not only healthy but essential for wellbeing. Parents can help by choosing a mix of activities that are both challenging and fun, such as adventure playgrounds or family walks.

2. Don’t let a little rain dampen the fun
The British weather is famously unpredictable, but outdoor play in the rain is just as rewarding. With waterproof clothing and a sense of adventure, children can thrive in wet conditions too.

3. Set smart boundaries on screen time
Today’s young people are predicted to spend the equivalent of 25 years of their lives looking at screens! Every hour sat staring at screens is an hour that could be spent outdoors, exploring, moving or simply playing. Instead, parents can set simple boundaries: no phones at mealtimes, less screen time before bed and encouragement to swap virtual play for real-world adventures.

4. Make movement part of everyday
For children aged five to 17, at least 60 minutes of moderate or vigorous activity daily is recommended. Bike rides, swimming or simply walking to school all count. These habits boost fitness, reduce anxiety and set the foundation for healthier adult lifestyles.

5. Let them learn by doing
For older children especially, independence is vital. Allowing them the freedom to wobble, stumble, fall and get back up teaches resilience. Over-protection, by contrast, can limit their ability to cope with setbacks. Activities that carry both risk and reward – such as trail walking – help young people practise bouncing back.

Children need more than exercise – they need experiences that challenge, inspire and prepare them for the future. Outdoor activity provides stronger physical health, confidence, self-esteem and resilience. Only the unpredictability and vitality of the outdoors offers the mix of skills young people need to thrive in today’s fast-changing world.

Dr John Allan is a leading academic in Sports Pedagogy, Psychology and Adventure Education.

Nov 10
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Growing confidence

By Education, Mental health, Relationships, Wellbeing

Why many children are struggling and how parents can help

Confidence is often described as the quiet superpower that shapes a child’s life, influencing everything from their mental wellbeing to their willingness to try new things and build friendships. Yet, recent research shows that a significant number of children in the UK are facing a confidence crisis – one that could have lasting impacts if left unaddressed.

The Listen Up Report from youth and education agency Hark reveals that up to one in three adolescents nationwide experience little or no confidence. While the report focuses on young people aged 11 to 18, many of the challenges it highlights are rooted in earlier childhood and can begin to take shape well before secondary school.

What is the ‘confidence crisis’?
Children with low confidence often struggle to speak up in class, join social activities or express their opinions. This ‘unheard third’ – roughly 10 children in every classroom – may find it difficult to participate fully in school and social life, which can hold them back academically and emotionally.

The report found that at age 11, when children start secondary school, around 29% already feel little or no confidence. This figure rises as children face new pressures and transitions during adolescence. Although confidence can improve with time, early experiences are crucial in shaping a child’s self-belief and future aspirations.

What’s behind the decline in confidence?
The factors contributing to this crisis are complex and interconnected:
• The lingering impact of Covid-19
School closures and social isolation disrupted normal childhood development, making it harder for children to build social skills and resilience.
• Social media and online pressure
Even younger children are exposed to the pressures of maintaining an ‘online persona’ through siblings or early access to technology. The fear of judgment and comparison can chip away at their self-esteem.
• Fear of judgment and lack of emotional safety
Many children, particularly girls and those from minority groups, feel they cannot speak openly without being misunderstood or judged harshly. This fear stifles their confidence to express themselves authentically.

Without safe spaces at school or home to discuss feelings and experiences, children may internalise their doubts, leading to a downward spiral of invisibility and self-doubt.

Why early confidence matters
Confidence in childhood is not just about feeling good in the moment – it shapes how children engage with learning, develop friendships and approach challenges.

Children who lack confidence are less likely to participate in class, join clubs or speak up, which means they miss out on valuable opportunities to grow and be seen.

This invisibility can become a self-perpetuating cycle – the quieter a child is, the less support and encouragement they receive, further eroding their confidence and narrowing their future possibilities.

What can parents do?
The good news is that confidence is not a fixed trait – it can be nurtured and developed with the right support and environment. Parents play a vital role in helping their children build belief in themselves. Here are some practical ways to help:
• Create safe spaces for expression
Encourage your child to share their thoughts and feelings without fear of judgment.
Listen actively and validate their experiences.
• Celebrate small successes
Recognise and praise your child’s efforts and achievements, no matter how small. This builds a sense of accomplishment and motivation.
• Model confidence and positive self-talk
Children learn by example. Show them how to approach challenges with a growth mindset and kindness towards themselves.
• Support social skills development
Encourage play dates, group activities and social interactions that help your child practise communication and cooperation.
• Be patient and persistent
Building confidence is a journey, not a race. Consistent encouragement and under-standing make a big difference over time.

A call to listen louder
Every child’s confidence journey is unique, and it’s vital that parents, teachers and communities work together to see, hear and value each child. The Listen Up Report reminds us that confidence gaps are not personality flaws but broken social patterns that can be changed.

By fostering environments where quieter voices can thrive and teaching children to believe in themselves, we can help them step through doors they might not even see are open to them.

This article is based on insights from Hark’s Listen Up Report 2025, a comprehensive study on youth confidence in the UK. Hark is a London-based education and youth agency with over 30 years’ experience supporting young people and organisations to build confidence and skills. For further details or to read the full report please visit www.harklondon.com/listen-up/

 

Nov 05
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Beyond the curtain: The academic benefits of performing arts education

By dance & Art, fun for children, Mental health, Panto, panto
by Theatretrain
www.theatretrain.co.uk

Performing arts education is more than a creative outlet. Studies show that involvement in theatre, dance and music leads to better memory, concentration, literacy and overall school performance.

While the spotlight shines on stage, the benefits of performing arts reach far into the classroom. Far from being a distraction from academics, the arts actually enhance learning – in measurable and meaningful ways.

Boosting brain function
Neuroscience confirms that engaging in music, dance and drama activates multiple areas of the brain. These areas are also responsible for:
• Memory
• Language processing
• Concentration
• Emotional regulation

This means children involved in the arts are often better equipped to handle academic challenges.

Improved literacy and language skills
In drama, students constantly read, write, speak and listen. These tasks build:
• Vocabulary
• Reading fluency
• Comprehension
• Verbal confidence

Performers must understand tone, intent and narrative structure – all of which transfer to English and literacy studies.

Enhanced memory and focus
Memorising lines and choreography requires mental discipline. Students develop tools for:
• Retaining information
• Sustained concentration
• Pattern recognition

These skills apply directly to learning maths, science and other subjects.

Creative thinking in problem solving
Performing arts encourage ‘thinking outside the box’. Children learn to:
• Approach challenges creatively
• Link ideas across subjects
• Use storytelling to understand complex ideas

Emotional regulation and academic confidence
Children involved in the arts often:
• Handle stress better
• Express frustration in a healthier way
• Believe more strongly in their own abilities

This emotional resilience supports classroom learning and behaviour.

Team learning in arts and academics
Performing in a group teaches cooperative learning, a key approach in modern classrooms. Students learn to:
• Share responsibility
• Respect diverse ideas
• Learn through doing

What the research says
A report from the Arts Education Partnership found that students involved in the arts consistently outperform their peers in academic subjects and standardised tests.

Famous supporters of arts in education
Actor and singer Julie Andrews said, “I think music and the arts should be a mandatory part of every school day.” Her belief is backed by research showing real academic benefits.

Tips for parents
• Encourage your child’s arts involvement alongside school.
• Highlight the connections between arts and academics.
• Celebrate progress and curiosity, not just grades.

Final thoughts
The arts don’t compete with academics – they complement and enhance them. By engaging in theatre, dance and music, students become more focused, expressive and successful in school.

At Theatretrain, we believe the stage and the classroom go hand in hand. When young people perform, they don’t just entertain – they grow. For further information on Theatretrain please contact Gaynor on 07856 959299 or visit www.theatretrain.co.uk/brighton

Nov 04
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Nurturing mums-to-be: The gentle benefits of pregnancy massage and holistic care

By beauty, family, Mental health
by Miki Hussein
Sunflower Holistic Massage

Pregnancy is exciting, life-changing and full of joy, but it can also be tiring. A growing bump often brings sore backs, swollen ankles, restless nights and more stress than you’d like. One simple way to ease some of that is with pregnancy massage. It’s gentle, safe, and designed to help you feel comfortable again. If you are expecting, massage can be a wonderful way to take care of yourself. Alongside reflexology and holistic facials, it helps you relax, release tension and feel more connected to your body as it changes.

Why massage helps during pregnancy
Your body is working harder than ever. As your bump grows, your centre of gravity shifts and that can mean discomfort in the lower back, hips and pelvis. A specially trained pregnancy massage therapist will use side-lying positions and supportive pillows so you feel secure. Massage eases tired muscles, improves circulation and can help with swelling in the feet and ankles. Many women also find they sleep better afterwards.

The National Childbirth Trust (NCT) and UK health professionals note that massage can reduce stress, improve posture, ease headaches caused by tension and help with mood. When your body feels more at ease, you’re more likely to rest well and cope better with the day-to-day.

The emotional side of massage
A lovely extra benefit of regular massage sessions during pregnancy or after birth is the chance to talk with someone who understands. A therapist experienced with maternity work has supported many women through the same ups and downs. That safe space to share how you’re feeling can be hugely reassuring. You might discover that the odd sensations, strange twinges or concerns you’ve noticed are all perfectly common. Sometimes just hearing “That’s normal” is enough to put your mind at ease.

Other supportive therapies: reflexology, facials and holistic treatments
Massage isn’t the only option. Reflexology is a gentle therapy using pressure points on the feet that link to different areas of the body. Many mums-to-be find it helps ease backache, nausea or water retention, as well as promoting better sleep.

Holistic facials can also be a treat in pregnancy. Hormonal changes often affect skin, leaving it dry, oily or more sensitive. A pregnancy-safe facial using gentle products soothes, hydrates and gives you a glow without irritation. These treatments are relaxing as well as practical, helping you feel cared for when your body is changing.

Why organic products matter
Your skin is your body’s largest organ, and while there’s no need to worry, it makes sense to choose carefully what you put on it. During pregnancy skin is often more sensitive, so organic products are a great choice. Therapists who use Soil Association certified skincare avoid unnecessary chemicals and synthetic fragrances. It’s about peace of mind, knowing that what’s being massaged into your skin is safe for both you and your bump.

Safety and timing
NHS advice says that massage is generally safe after the first trimester if you’re healthy, but always check with your midwife or GP if you have complications. Some oils aren’t suitable, and positions need adjusting, so it’s important to see a therapist who is trained in maternity work. Reflexology and facials are also safe when carried out by someone experienced in pregnancy care.

After the baby arrives
Massage doesn’t stop being useful once your little one is here. Postnatal massage helps with tired shoulders from feeding, sore backs from carrying and the general exhaustion of those early weeks. It boosts circulation, aids recovery and gives you precious time to recharge.

Reflexology or a calming facial can also be lovely ways to feel balanced again. Having that hour to yourself is more than pampering; it’s an investment in your wellbeing and helps you feel stronger, calmer and ready to enjoy time with your baby.

Putting it all together
Imagine this: you wake up, bump feeling heavy, back sore from sleep. After a pregnancy massage you feel lighter, more mobile, tension lifted from your shoulders. That evening you finally get a deeper sleep. Add in the relaxation of reflexology or the freshness of a holistic facial and the benefits build week by week. Less stress, fewer aches, more comfort and more confidence.

Pregnancy massage and other holistic therapies are not indulgences. They are supportive, practical ways to make life easier and more enjoyable during this special time – and beyond.

Miki is a mum of four and a therapist with over 20 years’ experience. She has treated hundreds of pregnant women, and while she works with all kinds of clients, supporting mums-to-be is what she loves most. Based in Worthing, Miki uses beautiful organic products such as Pink’s Boutique, and also offers reflexology and holistic facials in a calm, caring space. For further information please visit www.sunflowerholisticmassage.com

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