by Lucy Gill
Manager, Gymboree Play & Music Surbiton
The special day has finally arrived after what seems like months and month of planning and preparation. The three tiered ‘Peppa Pig’ cake is in the fridge, the ‘Paw Patrol’ balloons are filled with helium and the entertainer is armed with all three verses of your little one’s favorite ‘Mr. Tumble’ song.
What could possibly go wrong?
Shock, horror, it’s the morning of the party and your darling child tells you that; Peppa Pig is no longer cool, they now hate Paw Patrol and have apparently never even heard of Mr Tumble! In fact, they now want a Superhero party just like Sally had last week!
How do you react?
Full on panic and a crazy dash to the supermarket? A last minute Internet order to try and make sure your little one has everything they could possibly want? Or take a breath, smile and think “actually, none of that really matters”.
Yes, you’ve spent a small fortune to make this party ‘the best one yet’ but remember, with all your friends and family in one place, your child surrounded by presents, cake, food, balloons and a day dedicated just to them; this is definitely more than enough love, fuss and attention they need.
Having worked as a party leader for many years, I am going to give you my top tips on how to survive your child’s birthday party.
• Send out your invitations in plenty of time. The competition for that Saturday afternoon slot can be tough; don’t risk leaving it to late and being disappointed.
• Consider sharing the day with a friend. Birthday parties can be expensive and lots of planning, why not share the load?
• Don’t focus too strongly on one theme. Children tend to change their minds very quickly. Think of a theme that can be easily adapted, examples are jungle safari, football, pirates and princess or under the sea!
• Don’t go overboard on the food. I have often seen more food provided at a children’s party than on offer at a wedding buffet! Think about what your child has for lunch; add a few treats – that’s all you need.
• Provide some nibbles for the adults. This is a nice touch as sometimes a bag of rice cakes and a few grapes might not suffice.
• Dress your little one appropriately for the activities planned. Although you want to put your little one in an amazing outfit for everyone to see, make sure they can still move around and make the most of their party.
• Don’t forget the candles, matches and a knife to cut the cake, these fundamentals can be easily missed!
Lastly, don’t be shocked if your child, screams, cries, completely ignores the entertainer or even falls asleep. We see it all, just relax and remember that everyone goes through it one way or another.
It may sound cheesy but you are doing a great job and the reality is, how much you spend on the party bags or how big the venue is, doesn’t reflect what a fantastic parent you are, and it certainly doesn’t reflect how much you love your child.
Don’t forget, when your child’s birthday is approaching, and you’re looking for somewhere to celebrate their special day, Gymboree Play & Music creates great value, tailor-made parties for under fives. Please get in touch with your local branch, we would love to help you celebrate
and creating lasting memories!